I'm sure if you're a serious Goal Setter, at
some point you have heard the acronym of S.M.A.R.T. goals.
Specific
Measurable
Attainable
Reasonable
Time Bound
That's logical except for one thing.
Most people are not inspired by "Reasonable" Goals.
And who decides what is reasonable?
Most of the Goals that I set out to achieve last year were
completely UNreasonable.
I wrote two highly acclaimed books and created two audio
programs in a span of less than six months. I also partnered
with other leaders and contributed to dozens of books, programs
and projects. I started a new business from scratch and achieved
outrageous results.
What makes this even more remarkable is that I achieved more
in the past year during a time when I had the most challenges.
This is the first time that I am publicly
sharing that for much of that time I was providing around the
clock care for a sick relative, squeezing in my work in between
the demands of their care. For months I "stole" precious minutes
to write while in hospital waiting rooms and created the works that are the
foundation for the principles I teach in my books and workshops.
So why am I telling you this now?
Because it was "UNrealistic" to pursue some of the goals I set.
It was outrageous.
It was ... I.N.S.A.N.E.
Inspiring
Noble
Stretching
Ambitious
Nourishing
Empowering
I understood that even in the face of struggle, I always have a
choice. I could let go of my deepest desires or I could embrace
them and find comfort in them.
I did have to change some time tables. I did have to make some
adjustments and rearrange some things. But I held tight to my
Goals and dreams.
Many times I was only able to do a little towards their
advancement, but I always did something. Every single day. And
those little somethings added up and accumulated into BIG
results.
I didn't let anyone else tell me what was "realistic."
Other people don't know my capacity, my determination, my
dreams, my motivation, my passion, my commitment, my mission in
life, my destiny.
And part of that destiny is growth. Perseverance. Overcoming
obstacles. I used to be afraid to be uncomfortable. I would
never grow if I only did what was comfortable, what was easy. I
found the power that lies within by doing the difficult,
embracing a challenge, feeling the fear and doing it anyways.
You cannot live your dreams when you are "reasonable."
Do you think Bill Gates, Oprah, Tiger Woods, YouTube, Ray Kroc,
Henry Ford, or Einstein set "realistic" Goals?
Heck NO! People thought they were INSANE!
I found that after you do what is uncomfortable, that thing is
no longer uncomfortable. By progressively doing a little more
and going beyond, you create a whole new level in your life.
So don't set easy Goals. Set Goals that make you stretch. Set
goals that challenge you and force you to grow. Set Goals that
motivate you to become more today than you were yesterday. Set
Goals that make you become extraordinary. Set Goals that scare
you. Set Goals that make you feel ALIVE. Set Goals that are
compelling and be willing to do the work.
Set some UNrealistic Goals.
Set some INSANE Goals.
Live Your Dreams
Jill Koenig, the "Goal Guru" is America's Top Goal Strategist. A
best selling Author, Coach and Motivational Speaker, she is an
expert on the subjects of Goal Setting, Time Management and
Business Success. Her Goal in life is to help you UNLEASH your
untapped potential. Get your Free Goal Setting CD at
http://www.GoalGuru.com | |
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